I agree with Jonathan’s comments. Even when you think you are justified, it just adds another layer complexity when you take things personally. Trying to control an external is counterproductive.
Reputation is not up to us. We can do your best to act with good character but how others perceive us is not up to us. Focus on the effort, not the outcome.
Maybe if it's about defending yourself against an act of injustice. But, do the Stoics require the rest to act with virtue, or do they deal only with their actions? I think that because they consider themselves social beings, they also adopt the virtuous attitude of others as "preferred".
What about the value of one's reputation? If someone tells your neighbours you are a thief, for example, how can you not take that personally?
I agree with Jonathan’s comments. Even when you think you are justified, it just adds another layer complexity when you take things personally. Trying to control an external is counterproductive.
Reputation is not up to us. We can do your best to act with good character but how others perceive us is not up to us. Focus on the effort, not the outcome.
So under no circumstances should your reputation be defended?
Maybe if it's about defending yourself against an act of injustice. But, do the Stoics require the rest to act with virtue, or do they deal only with their actions? I think that because they consider themselves social beings, they also adopt the virtuous attitude of others as "preferred".